new day.... new thoughts....

Everyone seems to tell you that they have community figured out. Is it easier to see the forest when you are out of it? I don't know? that is what someone said to my husband about why he moved out of Hamilton. He lived here for 15 years and allowed youth to stay in his house, live there cook there, sleep there. then one day he said i should distance myself. What? Does distance give you prespective? I thought that living admist it did. Maybe he knows what he is talking about but i generally had that sense that he bailed when it got a little to close to home.